First,
the modern use of birth control pills has resulted, not in freedom and family
health, but in increased frequency of divorce, cohabitation, and abortion never
before seen in history.
Second,
the limitation on family growth is leaving thousands of elderly people to live
lives of loneliness and abandonment, because they have very few progenies to
care for and pay attention to them as they age. The New York Times has reported 4000 deaths weekly of lonely old people
without family support. In Japan, people are even being found dead in their
apartments only after neighbors suspect something wrong after the odor of a
decaying body alerts them.
Third,
pornography is substituting for healthy sexual activity between married adults.
This is leading to divorce and psychological damage.
Forth,
the cheapening of sex among the population is causing an increase of sexually
transmitted diseases and the perverted practice of egg donation for monetary
profit to those who cannot conceive normally because of abnormal family
arrangements or the results of sexually transmitted diseases.
Fifth,
the MeToo movement has cropped up due to the widespread belief that women are
available for sexual exploitation and dishonesty about their willingness for
extramarital sex.
I would
add to these five problems outlined by Ms. Eberstadt the fact that illicit sex
is ruining the character of both men and women who are disappointed,
disillusioned, and disheartened by unfulfilled and uncommitted sexual activity.
Both the family and the personal character of men and women is suffering.
Furthermore,
the sexual revolution is destroying and emasculating male character in men who
take what they want sexually and deny the responsibility of supporting a wife
and children. Instead of getting out of the house, working for a living, and
supporting moral values, they stay at home on the couch watching TV sports, drinking,
and even using illicit drugs to squelch their feelings of worthlessness.
The
sexual revolution has not fulfilled the promises that women’s liberation said
it would.